13 experiences...

i have done a lot of thinking for the past few days and i have spoken to many people. they have given me advices based on their life experiences. i have gain new knowledge and i have seen many disgusting things within my first month at work. and truly speaking from my mind,im utterly shocked..

1. when a guy approaches you and confesses his feelings within a few weeks of knowing you,remember,all he wants is your body. he likes what he saw and he wants sex.nothing more. but if a guy had been your friend for a very long time and after some time he tells you that he likes you,that is a gentleman.

2. a married man will come and approach you and say he is having so much of problems with his wife and be very sad. you might feel for him and your heart will reach out for him but in the end,all he wants is sex and once he gets it,he will tell you,"i cant leave my wife and kids,sorry".

3. never give your hp number around. there is a new trend among guys nowadays..passing hp numbers of girls..whichever girl responds,they will sweet talk to her..once they get sex..thats it,good bye and ur hp number will be passed around even more.and your name..just think among guys..you will be dirtier than rubbish. when u get any sms from unknown numbers, do not entertain them.

4. never beleive those guys who sweet talk to you.he will buy you expensive things,flowers,romantic dinners... most of them just want sex. remember..those whom you think are controlling you, are the ones who really care about you.

5. there is a new trend in town,married men and married women (working in the same place) with families of their own meet up secretly in hotels and have sex. this is true,it is happening in a factory very near mine.

6. whatever that happens in your life, always remember to keep someone updated about it. for me,i tell everything to my dad now. i have nothing to hide from him. rather than trying to be secretive and hiding things from him, i am very direct to him and he knows everything that is going on in my life. in this way, i have gained his trust and whatever i do now,i always think of my dad first. i will never let my actions bring him a bad name. never! never lie to your parents especially about a guy in your life or else,you will definately end up in trouble. even if u just like a guy,tell your dad first about him. u might think your dad is typical and he wont understand etc..but trust me, once you open up and be frank..u will be amazed with the results.

7. if you like a guy,never jump into a relationship. take your time and find out about him and his background. u will be shocked with things that u can find out.

8. never be too friendly with a guy especially when u have started working. working guys are not the same as your campus mates. there is not much innocense left around..

9. protect your virginity. not just your body..but your actions and also things that you do. virginity,once gone..you can never get it back.

10. be proud of your religion. if u are born a hindu,die a hindu. (and never make fun of another religion)

11. never trust a person easily. and never be too naive. think! god gave you brains to think, not to let it be idle and be manipulated.

12. if your partner wants sex before marriage, i believe thats the time to say goodbye no matter how much you love him. once he gets sex, he will leave you.

13. one thing for now i have learned, most guys just want sex from a girl. i dont understand it somehow. for me,u may call me a country brute or typical indian girl but i beleive sex before marriage is lustful and dirty and disgusting. even if it is between two people who are in love,it is still disgusting if there is no knots between them. seriously, sex is not everything in this life. i dont understand why guys and girls nowadays are so obsessed by it. and now,it's not just guys who just want sex in a relationship..girls are following that trend too.(im talking about indians here) and speaking from my heart..i am sad. life is not about sex. marriage is not about sex. love is not about sex. if u think sex is everything, i am sorry to say that you are wasting away your life. there are many things out there to be enjoyed. go out and explore things not bodies. control your lust and desires. marry the person you truly love and make love only to that person. enjoy life doing good things..and never forget god. in that way..your life is fulfilled.